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 What Is a Cohabitation Agreement?

A cohabitation agreement is a legal contract between individuals who live together but are not married. While marriage automatically comes with a set of legal rights and responsibilities governed by divorce laws, cohabitants don’t have the same inherent protections.

As a result, cohabitation agreements have become more prevalent, allowing parties to define the terms of their relationship, especially regarding financial matters, property ownership, and responsibilities. This can be particularly beneficial for partners who want clarity and assurance about what will happen if their relationship ends or one partner dies.

Are Cohabitation Agreements Legally Enforceable?

Yes, cohabitation agreements can be legally enforceable, much like other legal contracts, as long as they adhere to general contract principles. For an agreement to be legally binding, it typically needs an offer, acceptance, and consideration (something of value exchanged between the parties). It must also be entered voluntarily and without coercion, and the terms should be clear and specific.

These requirements for a legally binding contract have distinct implications, especially when applied to cohabitation agreements.

1. Offer and Acceptance

This refers to one party proposing specific terms for the agreement (the offer) and the other agreeing to those terms (the acceptance). For instance, one partner might offer to cover all the utility bills while the other pays the rent. The offer and acceptance criteria are met once both partners agree to these terms. Both parties must understand and agree to the arrangement’s specifics, ensuring they’re on the same page about their responsibilities and entitlements.

2. Consideration

Consideration is what each party brings to the table or commits to. It doesn’t necessarily mean money. In cohabitation agreements, consideration could be the commitment to pay a specific bill, maintain the household, or any other obligation or benefit that partners agree upon. For instance, if one party agrees to pay the rent, the other might commit to handling all household chores. This mutual exchange of promises serves as the consideration.

3. Entered into Voluntarily and Without Duress

Both parties must willingly enter the agreement, free from undue pressure or influence. If, for example, one partner feels coerced into signing the agreement due to threats or manipulation, the contract could be challenged and potentially deemed unenforceable.

4. Clear and Specific Terms

Vague or ambiguous terms can lead to misunderstandings and disputes down the line. For a cohabitation agreement, terms should clearly define financial responsibilities, property ownership, division of assets in case of separation, and other vital matters. Instead of vaguely stating that “expenses will be shared,” the agreement might detail percentages or specific amounts for each obligation or delineate which expenses are meant by “expenses.”

By ensuring that a cohabitation agreement meets these criteria, couples can create a more effective, clear, and enforceable agreement that can protect their rights and clarify their shared responsibilities.

Clauses Dictating Personal or Intimate Aspects of the Relationship

Much like other contracts, Cohabitation agreements have boundaries regarding what they can and cannot cover.

While these agreements aim to address practical and financial matters, there’s a boundary they shouldn’t cross. Clauses that attempt to regulate parties’ personal or intimate conduct are typically unenforceable.

Example: An agreement might stipulate that partners must go on a date every Friday night or have a certain number of children within specific years. While these may reflect the wishes or plans of the couple, the court will not enforce such personal matters. Mandating aspects of personal relations, including intimacy frequency, would also be viewed as beyond the scope of legal enforcement.

Violation of Established Laws or Public Policies

If any part of the agreement breaks local or federal laws, those portions will be void and unenforceable. Similarly, a clause that goes against widely recognized public policies can be invalidated.

Example 1: If a cohabitation agreement includes a clause where one partner agrees to engage in illegal activities, like selling drugs, to contribute to household income, this part of the agreement will be void, as it’s against the law.

Example 2: A clause that tries to waive a partner’s right to child support in the event of separation might be unenforceable, as public policy dictates that child support is for the child’s benefit, not a right that a parent can waive.

Unconscionable Clauses

A court may refuse to enforce a clause so one-sided that it’s “unconscionable” or grossly unfair. This often happens when one party has significantly more power or knowledge during negotiations, and the other is left at a distinct disadvantage.

Example: If one financially well-off partner includes a clause that the other partner, who might be financially dependent, will receive nothing in the event of a separation, a court may find this clause unconscionable and thus unenforceable.

It’s always advisable for each party to consult with their own attorney before finalizing a cohabitation agreement. This ensures that the agreement is legally binding and enforceable.

Breach of Contract

In case of a breach, like with other contracts, the aggrieved party can seek legal recourse, which might involve recovering damages for the breach or specific performance (a court order directing a party to perform a specific act).

Here’s a detailed breakdown in the context of a cohabitation agreement:

1. Determine the Breach

Before any legal action, it’s essential to ascertain if a genuine breach of the agreement has occurred. This involves revisiting the cohabitation agreement to pinpoint the specific clauses that have been violated.

For instance, if the agreement stipulates that Partner A would pay for 70% of the household expenses but has consistently been paying only 50%, that could be considered a breach.

2. Negotiation

Many couples first attempt to resolve breaches amicably. Direct communication can lead to a mutual understanding or even renegotiation of certain terms if both parties agree.

Example: Partner B might understand that Partner A’s financial circumstances have changed and agree to adjust the financial contributions accordingly.

3. Mediation

If direct negotiations don’t yield results, couples might opt for mediation. A neutral third-party mediator helps the couple communicate and find a solution. Mediation is less adversarial than litigation and can preserve the personal relationship.

4. Legal Recourse

If all else fails, the aggrieved party can initiate legal proceedings.

This could involve:

  • Recovering Damages: The court might order the breaching party to pay monetary damages to compensate for the breach. In our example, Partner A might be required to pay back the difference they owe as per the original agreement.
  • Specific Performance: This is rarer in cohabitation agreement breaches but is a possibility. The court might order the breaching party to fulfill the specific term they’ve breached.

5. Enforcing the Judgment

Once the court has given its verdict, the aggrieved party may need to take further steps to enforce the judgment, especially if the breaching party doesn’t comply. This might involve wage garnishments, property liens, or other measures.

For instance, if Partner A doesn’t pay the ordered damages, Partner B might need to get a lien on Partner A’s property or garnish their wages to recover the owed amount.

6. Consider the Cost-Benefit Ratio

Legal proceedings can be costly and time-consuming. Before diving into litigation, evaluating whether the potential benefits (recovered damages) outweigh the costs (legal fees, emotional toll, time) is crucial.

Do I Need a Lawyer for Cohabitation Agreements?

It’s advisable to consult with a prenup attorney when drafting or reviewing a cohabitation agreement. A lawyer can guide what terms and clauses should be included, ensure that the agreement adheres to legal standards, and help tailor the contract to meet the parties’ unique needs. If issues or disputes arise, an attorney can also provide essential representation.

If you’re considering a cohabitation agreement or have questions about one, LegalMatch can connect you with experienced cohabitation agreement attorneys who can assist you in protecting your rights and interests.

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